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An inspirational reminder of the potential of disabled children

Last week marked the end of another successful school year for my children.  It’s hard to believe we are already in to our summer vacation.  Having my family around 24-7 and enjoying endless warm, sunny days has thrown a bit of a wrinkle into my writing schedule.  I can see that I am going to have to be a bit more disciplined in carving out time to write and share.

I do not have hands-on experience with autism, although I advocate endlessly for families who have concerns regarding autism and the possible link to vaccines.  It is not a world I live in, but I have many friends who are raising amazing children who have autism or are on the spectrum.  A very dear friend and colleague of mine, who lives in Virginia, has been quite an inspiration to me in my work.  Her son, Sam, has profound autism.  She faces a daily, on-going struggle to raise Sam and develop his full potential.  Technology has allowed me to form strong bonds with many people, like Vicky, but does limit my ability to interact with their families and their lives.  I have never met Sam, but I know much about him.

One day Sam told his Mother that Hotel California was his favorite song.  He had apparently heard it on the radio.  After hearing 3-4 more times, he sat down at his piano and played a nearly flawless rendition of the entire song.  Whether you are raising a child with disabilities or not, you must watch Sam’s performance…you will be moved by the genius that is within this boy who, in many ways, is locked away from the world.

Here is what Vicky sent me, including a link that will allow you to watch Sam’s moving performance.:

Click here for the Age of Autism  story and clips related to Sam’s 
outstanding performance before a large noisy crowd at the Autism One 
conference in Chicago on Saturday, May 23rd.  This was his national 
debut and there were at least 500 parents and professionals in the 
audience and he was a calm and composed as can be. 

The link also goes to an essay that I wrote about one of the songs 
that Sam sang, U2’s, Sunday Bloody Sunday, a well-known political 
protest song.  As I expected, this song sent the crowd over the top.  
The autism community - especially those of us whose children were just 
fine until they got a set of vaccinations - are about as battle-weary 
as can be.  My essay, titled “How Long Do We Have To Sing This 
Song” (a line from the song) reflects that state but it also states 
that the vaccine-injured communities are still engaged and will 
continue to fight for the basic human right to voluntary, informed 
consent based on sound science and not ideology.  As I gear up for my 
next round of meetings with Federal officials to overhaul the broken 
vaccine safety system, just know that Sam’s courage and songs like 
Sunday Bloody Sunday are the fuel that keeps me going and renews my 
commitment to make sure that the system protects the health of everyone.

In case you missed the original piece that got this whole thing going 
- here’s the Hotel California link that is referred to in the 
introduction.

Also, Sam has now been asked to play at two additional national 
conferences:  National Autism Association, Ft. Lauderdale, FL 11/12-15 
and the 4th International National Vaccine Information Center 
conference, Reston, VA 10/2-4.

And, lastly, he’s been asked to host a monthly radio show on Autism 
One radio - he want’s to call it “Jam With Sam”.

My thanks for Sam and Vicky for showing us that we can never underestimate the true potential that lies within our children with special needs and for reminding me why my work is important and necessary.  Sam, you are a star!!

Tags: Age of Autism, autism, Autism One, developmental disability, Sam Debold, vaccine, vaccine safety, Vicky Debold

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