School districts need to offer more to support the families of their special education students

I used to work for an organization in the Mat-Su Valley that helped families deal with all the complexities of educating a child with special needs.  Unfortunately that little agency, a homegrown non-profit with a lot of vision but little direction or leadership, really couldn’t sustain itself and I have moved on.  But the need for families to have help and assistance has not…that is the sad thing.  I continue to be contacted regularly by parents who are seeking information, resources, support and guidance.  I wonder why this can’t be provided by the school district itself?

How great would it be if someone from your school district contacted you on a semi-regular basis to just check in?  To ask what is working and what isn’t?  To see what resources you might need or whether or not you need some support?  I find that once our children are in their classrooms and we, their parents, aren’t making a fuss about one issue or another the District is more than happy to leave us alone.  And yet, I’m not sure that is what we really want.  I would love the opportunity to share my feedback, to ask questions in a forum less formal than that of an IEP,  and to provide praise and as well as concerns.

I think our District needs a parent liaison.  Not an advocate, but a liaison who shows the human side of the educational process.  Who shows that the District cares about their students and their families.  I believe most educators (teachers, administrators, support specialists) absolutely do care, but they simply do not have enough time to do any more than is required for their classrooms.  It is simply too much to ask of them and the answer is not to add yet another task to their already overflowing plates.  In the grand scheme of a school district budget, particularly for special education, this would not be a big expense and the reward for having families become a part of the process instead of feeling alone and frustrated would be immense.

If you know of a District that has a person or department who acts in this capacity, I would love to know more about it.  I would love to know about the types of experiences others have had navigating the complicated waters of special education.  Please share your experiences with all of us.  I am hopeful to hear something, but an expecting silence, because I suspect most districts operate they same way ours does, which isn’t bad, but could always be better.

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